Every human being has been pestered by this age-long question: which is better? To have a roommate or to live alone?
No man is an island says an old saying. We all want to have someone who we can depend on in both good and bad times. That’s why we get roommates – someone who you can depend on times like these.
But there’s also some downside with living with someone else. Sometimes you and your roommate just won’t have chemistry. This can create havoc and can lead to the end of your friendship.
To whether or not you should get a roommate is up to you. To help you decide, Persquare listed down the good side and the bad side of both having a roommate and living alone.
THE CASE OF HAVING A ROOMMATE:
Advantages
- Cheaper rent: To those who are in a tight budget, having a roommate can help you minimize the amount that you pay for your rent.
- Instant help: Roommates can also help you in case sudden emergencies occur in your apartment.
- Instant friend: After a long day’s work, it’s nice to have someone who will listen to all of your work/school complaints.
- Sharing is caring: The roommate is the go-to person in case that you run out of toothpaste or need a piece of paper.
Disadvantages
- Unreliability: Sometimes, your roommate may not be able to pay the rent because of financial reasons. You have to be ready in case this happens – both for paying what is left or kicking him or her out of the house (kidding!).
- Lack of privacy: You may suddenly want some much-needed alone time yet your roommate wants the two of you to binge-watch House of Cards or brings home his or her group of annoying friends.
- Instant enemy: Sometimes you and your chosen roommate might not click. Pro tip: choose a roommate who you’ve known for a long time, someone who you respect and completely trust.
- Too dependent: Yes, having a roommate can get you a cheaper rent. But sometimes, relying too much on the extra cash that you get from cheaper rent can be a bad thing. What if your roommate left and you are now all alone to fend for yourself?
THE CASE OF LIVING ALONE:
Advantages
- Sense of adulthood: Living alone means you already have the financial capabilities to handle a big amount of rent or own a place. This is a huge stepping stone into becoming a real adult.
- Enjoy freedom: You finally have a sanctuary where you can be yourself. You no longer have to put up with other people’s problems. You no longer have to makisama. You can do whatever that you want to do with the house – as long as it fits your desire.
- Financial independence: You won’t grow a habit on relying on other people’s finances in your rent since you’re all alone in making decisions.
- Endless alone time: Cohabitation can sometimes be stressful. Having a space where you can be alone can help you be more comfortable.
Disadvantages
- Financial burden: If your monthly salary won’t be able to handle your rent, then it’s better to opt for renting with someone else.
- No halfsies: You’re not only going to pay for the rent on your own. You’ll also have to pay for food/groceries/electric/water bills all by yourself.
- Total isolation: Roommates, though they can get annoying, can also be the best friend that you can have. It’s nice to have someone who will talk to after a long day at work.
Whichever path you chose, Persquare is here for you. That’s why we listed down below the things that you need to remember in case you choose having a roommate or living alone:
If you choose to live with someone…
- Ask your roommate when she’s going to pay the rent and vice versa. Keep in tabs in any financial distort that your roommate may encounter. Always have a backup money in case he or she won’t be able to pay the other half of the rent.
- You and your roommate should be able to talk about each other’s personal space and territories. Put your name on the label on your food and supplies. Do your part too. Always ask for permission if you’re going to use his or her things.
- Remember that you and your roommate won’t always be in the same page. Resolve issues early and always look things to his or her perspective to avoid conflict.
If you choose to live alone…
- Always have spare money in case any house-related emergencies happen.
- Make sure that you have everything that you need in your disposal like an emergency kit, an extra scissor, or a frying pan – in case that you decide to learn how to cook.
- You can avoid loneliness if you go out with your friends. Or invite them in! You’re the King/Queen of your home.
Whatever happens, Persquare wishes you the best of luck in your new living situations. Check out our property listings to find your dream house – whether you’re alone or not!